Happy Divorcaversary – 4 December

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Its exactly a year to the day that my divorce decree was granted in the courts and all was finalized.

I was standing on a mountain in Mossel Bay with N and we kissed and he said ‘Here’s to no longer living in adultery’ and we laughed and hugged.

Then it was over.

Just like that – a judge signs the papers and 3.5 years is dissolved – just like that.

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New sister YAY – Day 250

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My brother proposed to his girlfriend on their holiday in Australia.

So happy and so excited for them 🙂 my heart is smiling.

How magnifeicent is the ring 🙂 Its a family heirloom, it was my grans 🙂

By the way – we’ve made it to day 250! I can’t believe it. So much has happened in the past 250days, I cannot even begin to comprehend the adventures and growth that I have experienced. And its so perfect that today I move into my studio to start my business and my next venture.

Remember – Day 17

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A and I drove down to the wedding with one of my friends and as we arrived I had to head to the rehearsal.

N was there – last September, if you follow my blog you should remember him, I fell for him like grains of sand through your hands – fast and uncontrollably and there was no stopping and no catching me. He moved to New York and I haven’t seen or spoken to him since mid December. We had a nice chat about his adjustment to New York and his new job and about my trip to Israel. I will admit, it felt good to be with him, speaking to him and being around his personality and his warmth.

‘Is that guy from earlier your boyfriend’ he asked,

‘Yeah’ I smiled shyly.

‘Thats awesome, I’m so happy for you. He seems like a nice guy’

‘Yeah I like him’, I giggled.

Apparently he was staring at me and A while were chatting and kissing and I was sitting on his lap. My friend nudged my arm and as I looked up I looked straight into N’s eyes.